ANNIVERSARIES
Always celebrate! Whether it's the 1st or the 50th, each year together is
a triumph.
APPRECIATION
Let each other know how much you appreciate each other.
You may already know but hearing it from each other is always better.
BEST FRIENDS
Be best friends preferably before being boyfriend-girlfriend.
Take time to know each other so the relationship will be a deep one.
Tell each other about your crushes, dreams and problems.
Make sure he/she is your best friend before getting engaged.
The strong bond of friendship will help you both survive tough times.
BOND
Make it a point to spend time together often but leave room for each other. Also spend time alone w/ each other, so that at the end of the day you could both share your experiences. This way, you stay interesting with your partner.
CHANGING EACH OTHER
Don't marry an as...le, j.... or a bi.... (an unsuitable person) You'll never change each other.
COMPLIMENTS
Always compliment each other.
This will prevent feelings of resentment & thinking that one is being taken for granted.
DATE
Keep doings things that you both enjoy, do them together.
Make time & continue to date to keep the romance - look good, smell good to maintain physical attraction
DIFFERENCES
Celebrate differences. Never force your ideologies down each other's throat. Give up trying to turn your partner into you. Accept differences, appreciate them.
FIGHTS
Fight w/the aim to resolve the issue. Don't outdo each other.
The longer you extend the fight. The more chances that you'll say something hurtful that you don't really mean. As mad as you were w/ your partner, he/she is still the person who laughs at your jokes & thinks you're hot.
Hear each other out, don't dig up old issues. Choose your battles.
Make sure the fight will be worth it & that something will change in the relationship as a result of the fight.
FLAWS
Know that the perfect person does not exist.
Know that just as there are things that you love about him/her, there will be things that will make you go crazy. We are only human with our own flaws.
FUN
Have fun together! This means keeping the fun & spontaneity that was there in the early days.
Allow yourselves to get silly - shower together, pee w/the door open etc. Being able to make each other laugh & see the lighter, crazier, absurd side is the best way to get through all the differences in personalities, adjustments in lifestyle & opposing viewpoints.
GOALS
Make sure you have similar goals.
It would be difficult to keep your bond intact if your views are complete opposite.
GRUDGES
Quit tabulating grudges. Let it off. Discuss it, then trash it, don't recycle it.
KEEPING IT HOT
Keep it hot by traveling to diff. places together.
A new setting will do wonders. Always have skin contact - be it holding hands, a massage or just plain leg rubbing.
HONESTY
Don't lie or hide things. The problem will only get bigger.
KNOW EACH OTHER
Learn each other's interest. It really keeps the conversation flowing!
HUG
A hug can be far better more intimate than a kiss.
IDENTITY
Don't lose your personality - that's why he/she fell in love w/you.
Have separate interest & activities to keep your individual, & to be able to contribute more to the relationship.
INDEPENDENCE
Having your own income means you're the boss in your life.
IN-LAWS
Make rooms for the in-laws.
INTENTIONS
Wish each other well. Don't wish each other worst
ISSUES
Speak up about the awkward stuff now,like money & sex. The earlier, the better.
LISTEN
Listen, listen, listen. Hear each other out especially during arguments.
LOOK GOOD
Mind your appearance! Stay fit & healthy for each other.
LOVE
It all boils down to your love, chemistry & respect for each other.
MEMORIES
Remind each other of the old days. Do something that you used to do for each other before.
It may even be corny but it made you two together.
Experience new things together- from dining into a new restaurant to experiencing street food together to exploring to new places. It's the little surprises that make great memories.
MIND READING
No matter how long you've been together, do not think that you can read each other's mind.
NEEDS
Be good to yourself,then be good to your partner.
That's what love is all about. Think about your partner. Will it make him/her happy?
Will she/he enjoy it? Consider each other's feelings.
Be very attentive & sensitive to each other's needs, physically & emotionally, that way your partner learns to do the same for you.
Never take your partner for granted.
PRIORITIES
If one says it's important, then it is! Prioritize each other among other things!
SPACE
Give each other space. Have dates with your girlfriends, have your boy's night out.
If you can't trust each other with this, then don't get married.
SORRY
Say sorry when you're wrong.
SURPRISES
No matter how long you've known each other, be open to surprises, both good or bad.
TEAMWORK
Think for two & always work as a team.
Consult each other before making a decision because everything will always affect both of you.
Strengthen couple power.
In many ways, we have to decide based on what is best for the relationship in favor of our individual selves.
SUPPORT
Support each other's dream. Be willing to follow your passions,
support your partner in his/her decisions & create new ones together.
Two heads are better than one.
TALK
Tell each other's stories. Life goes by so fast & its easy to see how easily couple can grow apart.
Whenever something funny, scary, exciting or juicy happened to you or to someone you know, tell each other about it & have your partner do the same. Keep each other in the loop of life, even by email if you have to.
Communication is the main ingredient in successful long relationships.
Share your feelings w/o judgments or criticism, active listening,
then working up to a discussion for problem solving. It takes continuous effort & learning.
Saturday, September 09, 2006
It's Dark in Here...
A woman takes a lover during the day, while her husband is at work. Her 9 year old son comes home unexpectedly, so she puts him in the closet and shuts the door. Her husband also comes home, so she puts her lover in the closet, with the little boy.
The little boy says, "Dark in here."
Man says, "Yes, it is."
Boy - "I have a baseball."
Man - "That's nice."
Boy - "Want to buy it?"
Man - "No, thanks."
Boy - "My dad's outside."
Man - "OK, how much?"
Boy - "$250"
In the next few weeks, it happens again that the boy and the lover are in the closet together.
Boy - "Dark in here."
Man - "Yes, it is."
Boy - "I have a baseball glove."
The lover, remembering the last time, asks the boy, "How much?"
Boy - "$750"
Man - "Fine."
A few days later, the father says to the boy, "Grab your glove. Let's go outside and toss the baseball back and forth."
The boy says, "I can't, I sold them."
The father asks, "How much did you sell them for?"
Boy - "$1,000"
The father says, "That's terrible to overcharge your friends like that, that is way more than those two things cost. I'm going to take you to church and make you confess."
They go to the church and the father makes the little boy sit in the confession booth and he closes the door.
The boy says, "Dark in here."
The priest says, "Don't start that shit again."
The little boy says, "Dark in here."
Man says, "Yes, it is."
Boy - "I have a baseball."
Man - "That's nice."
Boy - "Want to buy it?"
Man - "No, thanks."
Boy - "My dad's outside."
Man - "OK, how much?"
Boy - "$250"
In the next few weeks, it happens again that the boy and the lover are in the closet together.
Boy - "Dark in here."
Man - "Yes, it is."
Boy - "I have a baseball glove."
The lover, remembering the last time, asks the boy, "How much?"
Boy - "$750"
Man - "Fine."
A few days later, the father says to the boy, "Grab your glove. Let's go outside and toss the baseball back and forth."
The boy says, "I can't, I sold them."
The father asks, "How much did you sell them for?"
Boy - "$1,000"
The father says, "That's terrible to overcharge your friends like that, that is way more than those two things cost. I'm going to take you to church and make you confess."
They go to the church and the father makes the little boy sit in the confession booth and he closes the door.
The boy says, "Dark in here."
The priest says, "Don't start that shit again."
Friday, August 25, 2006
Jim's Physical Defect
Jim decided to propose to Sandy. But, prior to her acceptance, Sandy had to confess to her man about her childhood illness. She informed Jim that she suffered a disease that left her breasts at the maturity of a 12-year-old. He stated that it was OK because he loved her so much.
However, Jim felt this was also the time for him to open up and admit that he also had a deformity. Jim looked Sandy in the eyes and said, "I, too, have a problem. My penis is the same size as an infant and I hope you could deal with that once we are married."
She said, "Yes, I will marry you and learn to live with your infant size penis."
Sandy and Jim got married and they could not wait for the honeymoon. Jim whisked Sandy off to their hotel suite and they started touching, teasing, holding one another. As Sandy put her hands in Jim's pants, she began to scream and ran out of the room! Jim ran after her to find out what was wrong.
She said, "You told me your penis was the size of an infant!"
"Yes it is.....7 pounds, 5 ounces, 19 inches long!!"
However, Jim felt this was also the time for him to open up and admit that he also had a deformity. Jim looked Sandy in the eyes and said, "I, too, have a problem. My penis is the same size as an infant and I hope you could deal with that once we are married."
She said, "Yes, I will marry you and learn to live with your infant size penis."
Sandy and Jim got married and they could not wait for the honeymoon. Jim whisked Sandy off to their hotel suite and they started touching, teasing, holding one another. As Sandy put her hands in Jim's pants, she began to scream and ran out of the room! Jim ran after her to find out what was wrong.
She said, "You told me your penis was the size of an infant!"
"Yes it is.....7 pounds, 5 ounces, 19 inches long!!"
Tuesday, August 15, 2006
First Grader Boy Got Promoted to College
A first-grade teacher, Ms Neelam was having
trouble with one of her students the teacher
asked,”Boy, what is your problem?”
Boy answered, “I’m too smart for the first-grade.
My sister is in the third-grade and I’m smarter than
she is! I think I should be in the third-grade too!”
Ms. Neelam had enough. She took Boy to the
principal’s office.
While Boy waited in the outer office, the teacher
explained to the principal what the situation was.
The principal told Ms Neelam he would give the
boy a test and if he failed to answer any of his
questions he was to go back to the first-grade and
behave. She agreed.
Boy was brought in and the conditions were
explained to him and he agreed to take the test.
Principal: “What is 3 x 3?”
Boy: “9″.
Principal: “What is 6 x 6?”
Boy: “36″.
And so it went with every question the principal
thought a third-grade should know. The principal
looks at Ms. Neelam and tells her, “I think Boy
can go to the third-grade.”
Ms. Neelam says to the principal, “I have some of
my own questions.
Can I ask him ?” The principal and Boy both agree.
Ms. Neelam asks, “What does a cow have four of
that I have only two of?
Boy, after a moment “Legs.”
Ms. Neelam: “What is in your pants that you have
but I do not have?”
Boy: “Pockets”
Ms. Neelam: What starts with a C and ends with a
T, is hairy, oval, delicious and contains thin whitish
liquid?
Boy: Coconut
Ms. Neelam: What goes in hard and pink then
comes out soft and sticky?
The principal’s eyes open really wide and before he
could stop the answer, Boy was taking charge.
Boy: Bubblegum
Ms. Neelam: What does a man do standing up, a
woman does sitting down and a dog does on three
legs?
The principal’s eyes open really wide and before he
could stop the answer…
Boy: Shake hands
Ms. Neelam: Now I will ask some “Who am I” sort
of questions, okay?
Boy: Yep.
Ms. Neelam: You stick your poles inside me. You
tie me down to get me up. I get wet before you do.
Boy: Tent
Ms. Neelam: A finger goes in me. You fiddle with
me when you’re bored. The best man always has
me first.
The Principal was looking restless, a bit tense and
took one large Patiala Vodka peg.
Boy: Wedding Ring
Ms. Neelam: I come in many sizes. When I’m not
well, I drip. When you blow me, you feel good.
Boy: Nose
Ms. Neelam: I have a stiff shaft. My tip penetrates.
I come with a quiver.
Boy: Arrow
Ms. Neelam: What word starts with a ‘F’ and ends
in ‘K’ that means lot of heat and excitement?
Boy: Firetruck
Ms. Neelam: What word starts with a ‘F’ and ends
in ‘K’ & if u dont get it u have to use ur hand.
Boy: Fork
Ms. Neelam: What is it that all men have one of
it’s longer on some men than on others, the pope
doesn’t use his and a man gives it to his wife after
they’re married?
Boy: SURNAME
Ms. Neelam: What part of the man has no bone
but has muscles, has lots of veins, like pumping,
& is responsible for making love ?
Boy: HEART.
The principal breathed a sigh of relief and said to
the teacher, “Send this Boy to the University, I got
the last ten questions wrong myself!”
trouble with one of her students the teacher
asked,”Boy, what is your problem?”
Boy answered, “I’m too smart for the first-grade.
My sister is in the third-grade and I’m smarter than
she is! I think I should be in the third-grade too!”
Ms. Neelam had enough. She took Boy to the
principal’s office.
While Boy waited in the outer office, the teacher
explained to the principal what the situation was.
The principal told Ms Neelam he would give the
boy a test and if he failed to answer any of his
questions he was to go back to the first-grade and
behave. She agreed.
Boy was brought in and the conditions were
explained to him and he agreed to take the test.
Principal: “What is 3 x 3?”
Boy: “9″.
Principal: “What is 6 x 6?”
Boy: “36″.
And so it went with every question the principal
thought a third-grade should know. The principal
looks at Ms. Neelam and tells her, “I think Boy
can go to the third-grade.”
Ms. Neelam says to the principal, “I have some of
my own questions.
Can I ask him ?” The principal and Boy both agree.
Ms. Neelam asks, “What does a cow have four of
that I have only two of?
Boy, after a moment “Legs.”
Ms. Neelam: “What is in your pants that you have
but I do not have?”
Boy: “Pockets”
Ms. Neelam: What starts with a C and ends with a
T, is hairy, oval, delicious and contains thin whitish
liquid?
Boy: Coconut
Ms. Neelam: What goes in hard and pink then
comes out soft and sticky?
The principal’s eyes open really wide and before he
could stop the answer, Boy was taking charge.
Boy: Bubblegum
Ms. Neelam: What does a man do standing up, a
woman does sitting down and a dog does on three
legs?
The principal’s eyes open really wide and before he
could stop the answer…
Boy: Shake hands
Ms. Neelam: Now I will ask some “Who am I” sort
of questions, okay?
Boy: Yep.
Ms. Neelam: You stick your poles inside me. You
tie me down to get me up. I get wet before you do.
Boy: Tent
Ms. Neelam: A finger goes in me. You fiddle with
me when you’re bored. The best man always has
me first.
The Principal was looking restless, a bit tense and
took one large Patiala Vodka peg.
Boy: Wedding Ring
Ms. Neelam: I come in many sizes. When I’m not
well, I drip. When you blow me, you feel good.
Boy: Nose
Ms. Neelam: I have a stiff shaft. My tip penetrates.
I come with a quiver.
Boy: Arrow
Ms. Neelam: What word starts with a ‘F’ and ends
in ‘K’ that means lot of heat and excitement?
Boy: Firetruck
Ms. Neelam: What word starts with a ‘F’ and ends
in ‘K’ & if u dont get it u have to use ur hand.
Boy: Fork
Ms. Neelam: What is it that all men have one of
it’s longer on some men than on others, the pope
doesn’t use his and a man gives it to his wife after
they’re married?
Boy: SURNAME
Ms. Neelam: What part of the man has no bone
but has muscles, has lots of veins, like pumping,
& is responsible for making love ?
Boy: HEART.
The principal breathed a sigh of relief and said to
the teacher, “Send this Boy to the University, I got
the last ten questions wrong myself!”
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